relation ship probz X'3 | Closed*

Lately my girl is been hanging out to much with this friend of hers..they kissed before and they touched a sensative spot on their chest and when she goes to her..i don't completely trust it..and when i talk with mah girl she always says that she has sooooo much fun with her friend..and it really pisses me the hell off..
what should i do...
talk about it with her? o_O

EspadaTiff17 wrote:

Lately my girl is been hanging out to much with this friend of hers..they kissed before and they touched a sensative spot on their chest and when she goes to her..i don't completely trust it..and when i talk with mah girl she always says that she has sooooo much fun with her friend..and it really pisses me the hell off..
what should i do...
talk about it with her? o_O

well im not really an expert at this kind of stuff, so i don't think i give you much advice, but well what i think you should do is to talk with her, and see how she feels about this, and well if she's your girl, then well, she should actually be with you, but she should also be allowed to be with friends too, it's not like she's bound to you, but ofc she should priorities you if she's your girl ...

I would say.. Shes cheating... Leave hur sorry ass.. You should really look for a girl in your home town.. If you know what I mean...

Uhh.. Sorry... if this advice isn't a good one.. maybe someone else can say something better.. Sorry

Lexarox wrote:

EspadaTiff17 wrote:

Lately my girl is been hanging out to much with this friend of hers..they kissed before and they touched a sensative spot on their chest and when she goes to her..i don't completely trust it..and when i talk with mah girl she always says that she has sooooo much fun with her friend..and it really pisses me the hell off..
what should i do...
talk about it with her? o_O

well im not really an expert at this kind of stuff, so i don't think i give you much advice, but well what i think you should do is to talk with her, and see how she feels about this, and well if she's your girl, then well, she should actually be with you, but she should also be allowed to be with friends too, it's not like she's bound to you, but ofc she should priorities you if she's your girl ...

I also agree with what Kim said.. THUMBS UP! KIM!


PS. I am moving this topic to the real life section.

Lol it's ok and thank you both for your advice..and well Kim i don't live in england and she does..and the weird thing is her exams start this month and she said she will miss me and she would come online for me..but what's she's doing ..she's hanging with her friends i don't mind it that she does but sometimes i just feel like shit because of that xD

And Josh...i give it a try but i won't leave her ..well not yet if im like really sure she's cheating on me..i'll consider it but yea..it's best to talk i guess XD

I agree with Kim, you should talk to her.
If she gets angry thats a clear sign that she is up to no good...
So look out for guilty signs >_< we wouldn't want you to be with someone who cheats and if she is, you are better off without her.

But lets all hope that they are just friends and nothing more, remember; the past is the past, don't dwell on it, if they ever did something before that was the past. She has you now she shouldn't need someone else ^^

Thanks alot

Gotta agree with the rest above!

You just have to be the one taking up the subject before you part away.

Seen it happen alot of times when the couple starts drifting away from each other, and often its only one. Like in your case.

So my advice is to ask her directly if there is anything wrong, if she doesn't think she got enough attention e.t.c.

Thats the only advice i can give.

Hmm, well actually been thro similar case to this (gf having alot fun with her friends) i can only say that you need to talk to ur gf about this carefully and really check if she's cheating you, cuz it can be only innocent fun, jealousy can ruin a relationship that's why you should talk it thro once and for all, feeling unsure is really hard. Well i hope good luck to you, knowing ur gf I don't think shes cheating you, so i would think it's best to talk honestly.

I think its sorted now.. So can we please. Stop posting on this section

Closing thread.

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